Happy New Year!

I've already started on the Belgian Chocolate Baileys and pretty soon I'll be out with friends, eating, drinking and being merry.  Yep, that's right, I'm going for a traditional celebration.  No being kept bound, gagged and made someone's toy this NYE...mores the pity.  However you're celebrating, I wish you a Happy New Year!  Thanks for visiting time and again, your support means a lot.  Here's to 2016!

FetLife - Place To Connect...

Have any of you guys ventured onto FetLife?  What are your thoughts?  At first I wasn't sure about this site which basically looks to be Facebook meets Fetish.  But after sticking with it, I've made some really good friends and connections with other guys I might not have met on Recon.  I think Recon is great and I use it daily, but I can see what FetLife might be more of a draw for certain people.  It seems to be more focused on making friends and connections regarding our fetishes, rather than looking for a quick hook up (not that I'm saying there is anything wrong with that!)  I think there's a place for both points of view in cyberspace.  I'd say if you haven't, go check it out.  You can connect with me there, my username is BearIn2Bondage (funnily enough!)

Vids - Boyztube - Bound And Sucked

I'm not sure where this clip comes from, apart from where I found it on Boyztube.  It's a very very very light bondage scene (just a thin bit of rope and a blindfold) but it's still very enjoyable I think. So you know guys, enjoy it...

To Skype Or Not To Skype...

...That's the question.

This kind of dovetails in with the whole chastity post.  I am actually in contact with a master on the continent who wants me to be in chastity.  He doesn't hold the key and is dependant on trusting me to be a good boy.  We do Skype from time to time where he will instruct me to get into self bondage (as he chooses) and then I wank myself off for him.

I know some people aren't a fan of doing sessions over Skype.  At first I was a bit sceptical about it all but now I really do enjoy myself.  I don't get to be tied up as much as I like (all the people who do want to tie me up are thousands of miles away) so it's a way to have a bit of role play and enjoy a bit of bondage.  It's not to everyone's taste but I guess it's mine that matters to me.

Merry Christmas And A Happy New Year To One And All!

Santa wants to wish all readers a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!  May the season be filled with aching sacks and lots of bondage!

Vids - BondageMan Brazil - Ander Chair Tied

Well guys, I recently got myself a subscription to BondageMan Brazil and I have to say I really enjoy the material on the site.  I think the models are really great, and I like the fact there is a wide variety for differing tastes, the ties are inventive and many of the models have no problem being naked, clearly showing how much they love being gagged and bound!

After the blunt and rude non-dialogue with the owner of Captured Guys, I ended up cancelling my subscription and switching to BondageMan Brazil instead.  I reached out to the owner and he has very kindly allowed me to post certain clips and pictures on Bondage For The Big Man.  I'm very appreciative of this, as it allows me another resource to create posts for you all.

So the first post from BondageMan Brazil is Ander, chair tied.  Hope you guys enjoy and I encourage you to visit the site and show your support.

My Evolving Views On Chastity...

I have a love/hate relationship with chastity play, and I guess that's the point.  Recently I have been getting back into wearing chastity on a more longer term basis.  But the fantasy and reality have never meshed well with me.  Being a bigger guy, I have found it difficult in the past to wear a device long term.  At the moment I only wear chastity when I'm home alone (which to be fair is a lot) but when I'm out and about I'm swinging free and easy.  The personal issues I have vary really; sometimes I can be so soft that my cock can almost come out the cage, soreness around my groin area means I have to remove the device until the skin has healed, and I've not yet found a device which is discreet.  This leaves me feeling a bit mixed about chastity devices because it's very much, when it's right it's fantastic and when it's not it can leave me and my body feeling irritated.

My normal chastity device is from Steelwxxks:

To be honest I love this device, I think it looks really sexy and I have to say I have no issues wearing this.  Even over nights are no problem.  The only issue is that it's quite easy to get excited within in the tube and I can manipulate it my own ends.  I probably should have gotten a smaller tube but that would've have made erections quite painful...what's wrong with that I hear you say! 

My fantasy device has always been a belt, but they are bloody expensive.  The other device I drooled over was the aluminium seed pod.  It was always a bit out of my price range, but I recently was able to purchase one.  I tried it on once and to be honest I was disappointed.  It feels like the device is made for guys who are bigger in that area.  I realised though, that the seed pod could work if I hadn't cum for anything over a few days. I was more likely to be semi hard than completely flaccid all the time.  

Today is the first time I've worn the device for more than 30 minutes and so far, so good: 

The plan now is to wear it for the rest of the night and sleep in it as well.  Wish me luck!

What are your thoughts on chastity play?  Do you know of any really great devices?  Have to had experience wearing them?  Drop me a message or comment, I'd love to hear what you guys think.

Pics - BearIn2Bondage NYPD Cop Take Down

I know it might be a bit egotistical to kick off the first picture post with shots of yours truly but I couldn't help myself.  This session was with a very good friend who I'd not seen for a while.  We always have fun when we get together, and it is always hot.  Away from the ropes, he's a lovely guy who I am lucky to call a friend.  I hope you enjoy the pictures as much as I enjoyed enduring for them!

This blog going forward...

So, I wanted to do a quick post about this blog, going forward from today.  Personally, I cannot sustain the amount of material I was posting on a weekly basis.  It's one of the main reasons I stopped posting to be honest. 

From here on in the blog is going to be a mix of pictures, videos, and my bondage thoughts.  There will be some reblogging of material too. 

If this blog was about general bondage, then great but it's not. It caters to a very specific market, one which is very small. Yes, I can get my hands on lots of pictures of muscled guys tied up, it's the ones of beary guys I have more issue with.  So please, if you are a bear/cub/chub reading this and want to be featured on here, please get in touch at bondageforthebigman@gmail.com 

I'm Back!

Hello everyone!  Guess who's back!

I had a bit of a change of heart regarding the blog.  So I'm starting things up again.  It's good to know that so many of your lovely people have continued to visit since I stopped posting.  I'm glad I didn't delete the blog, because I always thought I would come back to it, didn't think it would be so soon.

As for content, well that's getting more limited by the day.  But as ever I'll see what I can do.  It's good to be back.