Wednesday, 13 January 2016
The Hunt For Vers/Top Players...
I always thought the grass was greener. I always thought it was just me that bemoaned the lack of good vers/top bondage players where I live. Now don't get me wrong, I get to play with some great guys who I have come to regard as friends. But I guess I'm always on the look out for more connections. And the guys I do connect with and who I think I would have a great time with, are always thousands of miles away. From my chats with guys this seems to be a common recurrence. Maybe it's the same shit all over the world, who knows.
So what do I do? Well I contact guys on Recon or FetLife who I think might be a good fit...so far no takers. Instead I've embraced my Top side and spend more time tying up guys than being tied. I hope this isn't the sign of things to come. I know I'm complaining but I do really enjoy tying up guys, can't beat seeing a guy struggling and grunting at your feet. It gets me hard in my chastity (yes it's still on) and leaking like a mad man. So I guess I'll continue to take opportunities whenever they come my way!
About the first part of your post, I never gave it much thought but it is quite interesting to see that many people seem to find their best kink connections outside their own city/country/continent :) I'm one of them, as you know. Not really sure why this happens, the grass being greener might be one factor, but at the end of the day you're still making a personal connection with someone, not because they live far away but because you have stuff in common and you like each other.
ReplyDeleteYes indeed, and I do love to make connections with guys who share similar interests. I can talk to my non kink friends about my activities but they don't completely understand because they don't indulge in it. So I like chatting to guys, even if it never goes anywhere. And who is gonna say no to some horny chat along with the more day to day conversations... ;o)
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