Bondage Words

I was pondering tonight about the power of words.  Especially words which evoke strong bondage connotations.  I'm always surprised when after having a good chat about what a top might do to me, or what I might do to a sub, I find myself leaking a little pre-cum after the exchange.  I don't quite know why I am so surprised, imagination is a powerful thing!  And sometimes imagination and fantasy are better than the actual experience.  Not always but sometimes.  Also, I always think a bit of healthy bondage chat is never a bad thing to partake in.  It won't always end in a meet, but it's great to exchange thoughts.

I really do believe communication is very important in this world of kink, it is important to me. I'm not the type of person to go straight into a scene without a lot of discussion first and steady flow of ideas.  Sometimes, it's a powerful tool to frustrate those locked in chastity - and I include myself in this statement.  I'm currently talking to one guy who is delighting in getting me frustrated every time he posts a message to me.  But beyond the fun, I guess in a lot of ways it's how we first connect with each other in this community.  So I say, never underestimate the power of words.